Tea Project Tribute: Robyn Suarez
A Tribute to Tea Project Educator, Robyn Suarez.
Introducing Robyn
Robyn is an English Language Teacher (ELT) at Shelburne Community School. She works with Multilingual Learners (ML) and families who have immigrated to the Shelburne, VT community from upwards of 14 countries.
Robyn was my one and only student in the Spring Tea Project Class of 2020 - and she managed to plant a garden at SCS that spring that is now in its rising fourth year, is thriving, and is stocking her ML classroom tea apothecary for daily tea routines of mindfulness and sensory awareness practices!
In addition to broadening my scope of diversity, equity and inclusion, Robyn taught me that tea is a cherished household routine in her families’ homes. She shared anecdotes of the importance of tea ritual, visiting time and resting time as elements of her home visits. Robyn has taught me, from square one, that tea is a shared cultural heritage of many cultures around the world. Rest and community are valued in the ritualized tea time each day of the international cultural traditions practiced by her ML families. In fact, to most cultural heritages, it is a strange practice that in the US we are absent of the daily tea time to rest and regroup, to come together and value our family and community over the speed of work and production. Instead we drink coffee in paper to go cups to keep trucking along when the urge to rest hits us at what others might call “tea time”. This is worth pausing to consider!
As a wellness educator, my focus in schools has slowly evolved alongside an increased understanding among my clients of the direct relationship between mental health supports and academic success. Where I once was an advocate for co-regulation and wellness practices, I am now in more of a collaborative role with administration and educators who seek to develop herbal tea practices, connection with nature, rest, play and mindfulness exercises during the school day. Robyn was one of the the first of these collaborative relationships.
Tea Time is for relaxing
At first, Robyn is surprised by the offer of tea as she intends to depart. After many home visits in which she experiences this tradition, however, Robyn budgets double the amount of time for her meeting, so that she can accept this invitation for tea with the families. Tea time is separate from meeting time. It is a time to rest and regroup together, to get to know one another through sharing stories and being present. In this way, she and her families part ways with warmth in their hearts and their bellies.